Here is a picture of Joel and his counselor, Jackson. I love seeing him swinging because he used to have such a hard time. He would always fall right off the swing but in the past 2 years or so he’s become a pro.
Last Wednesday Joel started a 5 day camp called Camp Able,and it was such a beautiful experience. I really really wish it lasted longer. In previous posts I have mentioned my job but if you don’t know, I work at a nonprofit called Families Helping Families of Jefferson in which I help connect families to resources and provide trainings and do some advocacy work and other stuff. Well one of the biggest things that I get calls about as summer approaches is summer camps. Many times children with disabilities get rejected or sent home from camp because they are not fully potty trained or because of their behavior. Now most of these camps advertise themselves as “special needs” camps or something similar. Soooo… how can a special needs camp reject children because of their special needs?!? Here is an excerpt from a local “special needs” camp ad:
“The success of all recreation activities depends not only on good planning & instruction, but the conduct of participants. Appropriate behavior includes the ability to follow instructions and interact with others in a socially acceptable manner. Must be mobility capable & able to attend to personal needs.”
Those words already rule out so many children with disabilities, it is so crazy to me that they put this out there. To me, this is basically saying only higher functioning kids are accepted. It is so unfair. I hate when a parent calls to ask me for a list of camps that are supposed to be for kids with disabilities and I hear the gratitude and excitement in their voice, only to have some of them call back saying their child has been rejected because of what I just mentioned. It is really so upsetting.
I say all of that to say this: Camp Able is awesome. Joel has gone to other camps that are great like Lions Camp, but I haven’t been able to go and see what’s like for myself. I written about how he acts when we go see him at games before, how he can be mean to us and it seems like he doesn’t want us there. Well, that’s how it is when we go to see him at Lion’s Camp for the closing ceremony. So we have decided not to go see him for that anymore and that was our only look into his experience at Lions Camp. He can’t really communicate what his experience is like to us but we know it’s good based on pictures and conversations with staff.
Camp Able was different. It was held close to home and My sister and I were able to volunteer some time with them. We couldn’t volunteer all we wanted but we did as much as we could. Anyway, we got to see it all and it was great. Joel was a little moody at times but over all he interacted great and had lots of fun. They accepted kids with mobility issues, behavior issues, and even children who were not fully potty trained. My sister’s camper was a girl who’s behavior was not the best and would hit her counselors. She was also not fully potty trained and my sister had to help her in the bathroom and clean her up after an accident. Guess what? She didn’t get sent home!
Camp Able was full of adventures to local spots like the aquarium, pool, and city park’s amusement park. Joel had plenty of fun on water slides and playing basketball. If you know Joel, you know his favorite things are dancing, water, and basketball. Although, weirdly enough he didn’t want to dance at all during camp. He did however chose to show off his basketball skills for the talent show, which I thought wa super cool and different. One of my favorite things about Camp Able was that they made room for Jesus!
Here are some pics:
P.S I feel like this post was all over the place, hope you still enjoyed it.