So, last week I wrote a bad example of friendship and I thought I’d highlight some good ones. 🙂
I really appreciate my friends who consider Joel a friend. Even people who I do not know that consider him a friend. There have been many times where we run into people Joel knows in a public setting like the mall or grocery store. Joel usually tries to act cool and will barely lift his hand as he waves and says ‘hey’ in a most nonchalant voice.
My favorite thing is to see how he reacts when my friends come over. He greets them with a happy smile and will not leave us alone. He wants to be a part of the conversation. He’s super talkative even though most of what he says is not understandable. It can be a little annoying and I would like to thank everyone for being super cool about it. Thanks for your patience and understanding! It makes me feel proud of my friend my when they pretend to know what he’s saying and try to hold the conversation.
It’s much better in my eyes than when some people just start laughing. I’m sure they aren’t laughing at him and they just don’t know what to do. But its just weird when people laugh in the middle of him trying to make a conversation. He notices, he knows what he said wasn’t a joke. I’ve seen it time and time again. Joel is trying to talk to someone and they laugh just because they don’t know what he said. He pauses and looks confused and says, “oh, okay.” What’s worse is when people babble back… eww. I won’t get in to it.
So shoutout to those who make him feel included and heard! I can’t say this enough!!!!
So here’s an example:
So I’m going to write about my boyfriend, I was trying not to mention him because it’ll sound biased but it’s the best example I can think of…I’ll use a real name for once. Huy.
So Huy has always been extremely great with Joel. I’m sure Joel loves him more than me.. because he says so all the time!! Huy has proven to be a friend to Joel many different ways. Joel face times him when he’s upset and texts him constantly. When I can’t get joel to listen, I’ll call Huy and he is always able to get Joel to behave. When we’re out and about I can never get Joel to hold my hand but he’ll gladly hold Huy’s hand. When Joel needs someone to take him to the restroom, we can always count on Huy to take him. Huy is always there for him. No questions asked. No protests. He never looks for a way out and he doesn’t look for anything in return. I’m sure he can get annoyed with all of Joel’s texts and Snapchats, but Huy’s is always a good sport. It’s been over 4 years and Huy is still as great with Joel as when he first met him.
Thanks for supporting him. Thanks for hyping him up when he’s dancing. Thanks for loving him. Thanks caring for him. Thanks for giving advice. Thanks for being Joel’s best friend!